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I am glad to read that the families auto is fixed. However, the pressure that parents place on the offspring can hurt and be counterproductive in the long run from my perspective. For example, "As a non-medical studying family member, my parents prefer if im not mentioned," What are your thoughts about this?

There are many families like that - it's just the way it is - families try to out-do each other. It is worse if there is pressure on you to do well (like SATs in the US or HSC in Australia) but I've passed that stage and they can't say much about it - and its good because I'm left alone, less pressure that way!

But that kind of family structure does exist and is prevalent in many Asian families - but as the next generation we understand how much that's bad and we're most likely going to change that :)

great pics! wooot
I don't have that much pressure on me to do super well, but my mom expects a level of accomplishment. She's always bugging me on marrying someone with a good job too, "if you marry a navy, make sure he's an officer..." or "i want you to meet soandso's son, Stephen. he works for ...what's bill gates company?... microsoft. he works there. i want you to meet him." grrr.

Anyway, glad you got the car back! Yay!

Hahaha. I used to get that "hook-up" pressure too, but that's gone too because I've rejected them so many times. But she does occasionally remind me that I should be seeking "Asians" and I kinda tick her off for fun by adding, "No hope mum, no hope" lol

Hahahaha. My mom can't say anything because she married outside of her race, lmao!

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